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- People often externalize their anger onto others, but this anger is usually directed at themselves projected onto mirrors of their own flaws.
- Avoiding self-reflection leads to creating enemies or villains to preserve a sense of moral cleanliness.
- Each person can be a villain in someone else's story, often for serving as a convenient mirror rather than malicious intent.
- Real harm exists, but most everyday conflicts involve projecting one's own traits onto others.
- Self-victimization is a trap; staying in a situation signifies enrollment, not imprisonment.
- Advice often reflects the advisor's own fears, not genuine concern for the recipient.
- Emotional disabilities can be invisible, leading to misinterpretation of behavior as intentional harm.
- Everyone has an invisible 'wheelchair'—flaws they cannot see, causing defensive reactions when confronted.
- Relationships are spaces where personal traumas are played out, and the goal is to see others clearly without projection.