Why good houseguests don't 'make themselves at home'

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Being a considerate houseguest involves respecting the host's space and not treating their home as your own.
Ask to stay with friends or family only if you'd be comfortable hosting them in return, and give at least three weeks' notice.
Keep visits short, ideally four days and three nights, unless for special occasions.
Communicate your plans and needs (e.g., allergies, mobility issues) in advance to avoid awkwardness.
When told to 'make yourself at home,' it means basic self-sufficiency, not overstepping boundaries.
Keep your belongings tidy and contained to avoid making a mess.
Bring or send a thoughtful host gift, ideally reflecting your visit.
Be self-sufficient with transportation; don’t rely on the host for rides.
Leave on time and express gratitude to ensure future invitations.
Reciprocate by inviting your host to stay with you in the future.

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