- The autism spectrum is not a gradient from mild to severe but a collection of distinct traits, similar to colors in a visible light spectrum.
- Autism involves an 'uneven profile of abilities' across multiple categories like social communication, sensory processing, and motor control; diagnosis requires challenges in several areas.
- Common misconceptions include labeling people as 'a little autistic' based on isolated traits, which overlooks the complexity and diversity of autism.
- Autistic individuals have varying 'skill sets'—differences in speech, motor control, or social awareness do not indicate who is 'more' autistic.
- Non-speaking autistics may be highly socially aware and intellectually capable, challenging assumptions based on outward behavior.
- The visibility of autism traits does not predict a person's abilities or support needs; each individual requires personalized understanding and accommodations.
- Society often fails autistic people by making assumptions based on observable behavior, rather than asking about their specific capabilities and needs.